Passion Fuel II

A Revelation of the Father’s Love



The scripture is filled with stories that depict the Father’s love for His children, but I would like to use the story of the lost son in Luke 15, and the definition of love found in 1 Corinthians 13 to explore the different qualities of love in this story.

The Parable of the Lost Son

Luke 15: 11-32 Then He said: "A certain man had two sons. 12 And the younger of them said to his father, 'Father, give me the portion of goods that falls to me.' So he divided to them his livelihood. 13 And not many days after, the younger son gathered all together, journeyed to a far country, and there wasted his possessions with prodigal living. 14 But when he had spent all, there arose a severe famine in that land, and he began to be in want. 15 Then he went and joined himself to a citizen of that country, and he sent him into his fields to feed swine. 16 And he would gladly have filled his stomach with the pods that the swine ate, and no one gave him anything.

17 "But when he came to himself, he said, 'How many of my father's hired servants have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger! 18 I will arise and go to my father, and will say to him, "Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you, 19 and I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Make me like one of your hired servants."'

20 "And he arose and came to his father. But when he was still a great way off, his father saw him and had compassion, and ran and fell on his neck and kissed him. 21 And the son said to him, 'Father, I have sinned against heaven and in your sight, and am no longer worthy to be called your son.'

22 "But the father said to his servants, 'Bring out the best robe and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand and sandals on his feet. 23 And bring the fatted calf here and kill it, and let us eat and be merry; 24 for this my son was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.' And they began to be merry.

25 "Now his older son was in the field. And as he came and drew near to the house, he heard music and dancing. 26 So he called one of the servants and asked what these things meant. 27 And he said to him, 'Your brother has come, and because he has received him safe and sound, your father has killed the fatted calf.'

28 "But he was angry and would not go in. Therefore his father came out and pleaded with him. 29 So he answered and said to his father, 'Lo, these many years I have been serving you; I never transgressed your commandment at any time; and yet you never gave me a young goat, that I might make merry with my friends. 30 But as soon as this son of yours came, who has devoured your livelihood with harlots, you killed the fatted calf for him.'

31 "And he said to him, 'Son, you are always with me, and all that I have is yours. 32 It was right that we should make merry and be glad, for your brother was dead and is alive again, and was lost and is found.'" NKJV


1 Corinthians 13:4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never fails. NKJV

It would appear that both sons mentioned in this story were given their inheritance but only one of them acted any differently as a result. Though he did the wrong things, and spent his wealth on wild living, the father had great patience and long suffering towards him. We all would hope that our children would not make the same mistakes that we did but would take our advice and avoid a lot of heartache. It is evident that the father in this story did not chase after his son, to point out every wrong use of his new freedom, but was very patient to allow him to make mistakes and to learn from them. From my own experience as a son and a father, I can view this from both sides of the issue. It seems we learn more from our mistakes because of the reminders we experience in the ensuing suffering and heartache that results from bad choices.

Love is kind. The father in this story exhibited great kindness toward both of his sons. He was not harsh, to correct or scold, but was very open to listen. On the other hand, the older son complained about the party being thrown and suggested it should have been for himself because he had stayed around home and out of trouble. The elder son did not display the same love that their father did.

The father did not appear to be envious or covetous concerning the waste or loss of material wealth. I know it would have been very difficult for me to sit quietly by and watch my son waste an inheritance that was gained by much diligence and hard work. Sometimes eternal lessons need to be learned at the expense of temporal wealth.

We can see two opposing reactions: that of the father and that of the elder son. Though the father did not act arrogantly or proud, the elder brother did. He began to compare his good behavior with his brother’s lack thereof and began to question his father as to why he had never been given a party to commemorate his stellar performance. He was missing the point. Their father wanted to celebrate the return of his son back into the fellowship of the family; it was not about performance but about love.

We also see that the father was not rude toward his returning son and did not look at the situation to see what he could gain selfishly from it. It is somewhat common for a father to humiliate a son who is caught in a jamb and to take advantage of his dilemma. The hog farmer appeared to have taken advantage of the young man, giving him work but only rewarding him by what he could manage to eat from the pig trough. The father did not even mention his sin, or lack of wisdom, but welcomed him with open arms.

Love is not provoked or made to react in an uncontrolled manner. The father did not show a sign of anger, or even disappointment, toward his son. I am sure there were times any father would feel anger and disappointment, but love will temper those responses so that they not form a barrier to the return of his son.

Love does not think up evil schemes. The father had not been dwelling on the evil his son had been involved in, but trusted in the good that was instilled in him as a boy growing up. The father trusted the seeds that had been sown in his life to sprout up and produce good fruit. He was careful to reclaim the ground of the young man’s heart before the evil seeds that had been sown in him could produce a larger crop. A negative or harsh reaction could have been like a violent wind that spreads or reinforces the evil seeds that were present.

Love does not rejoice in iniquity but rejoices in the truth. The father was glad to see his son return home. Even before his son’s plea of repentance, he had his arms stretched out to receive him. The son was coming clean and being transparent and truthful. He did not try to make any excuses for his sin but completely threw himself upon his father’s mercy.

Love bears, believes, hopes, and endures all things. The father waited a long time, continuing to believe, never giving up hope, but kept his eyes upon the horizon, so to speak, for any sign of his son’s return.

Love never fails. The father in this story walked in love and that love did not fail to reproduce after its own kind. Love never fails, so we must also walk in love and allow love to be defined in and through our lives.

Our passion is fueled by love and love will cause us to have the same heart of the father. The passions of the world are overshadowed by the passion of God’s Love. Like fighting fire with fire, we must be consumed with the fire of God so that the passions of this temporary life will have no place to burn in us.